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Three Quick TIPs for SNF Success

Three Quick TIPs you can do PRIOR to placement to ensure a successful relationship with a SNF

 

There are many “experts” giving advice and writing articles about how to choose a nursing home.  These articles have lots of good generic information and a few good tips.  While I appreciate their efforts, this is akin to writing an article on how to choose a good spouse and never addressing the relationship that occurs after the choice.   We all know that choosing a good spouse is important but it doesn’t negate all the hard work in developing the relationship that happens after the “choice”.  Additionally, many of the people giving this advice work for companies that make money by selling referrals. 

This is not an article about choosing a nursing home or home health or hospice… this is an article about how to START the relationship in a way that set you up for a better experience and outcomes!

I have broken it down into 3 easy steps… they are only starting points but will get you on your way to a successful family/ provider relationship.  First of all, you are the expert on your family member!  You know them better than anyone else…You should, you have been in relationship with them for decades and we want to leverage that knowledge in a way that will make care provider thankful to care for you and your loved one.  These are three easy tasks that you can do that will set you and your loved one up for better care.

 

1.     Write out a detailed social history.  (Prior to Placement)

Tell their life story.  Everyone has a unique story and if I am a caregiver, I am looking to bond with this person so that they feel safe and will trust me.   This job is made so much easier if I have a “Cliff Notes” of my patient’s life!  A social history should be a story about how they began the journey and important experiences along the way that help form who they were, what they did and accomplished!  You are a combination of both positive and negative experience… so don’t be afraid to tell the whole truth.   It is helpful for providers to know of past traumas or difficulties so that we do not inadvertently hurt or offend our clients.  The Legacy Project has a tool that you may want to use… or just use it as a prompt to help you tell the story of your loved ones live.  https://www.legacyproject.org/activities/lifestory.pdf

 

2.     Create a detailed food preference. (Prior to Placement)

If the provider is going to be serving your loved one meals… it is helpful to know what they like and dislike.  In this situation, details matter!  Especially with food item like “fish”.  What is the exact preference or dislike?  Is there a preferred style?  Some likes fried fish but not baked fish?  Do they dislike all fish?  White fish, Salmon, Salmon Cakes?  What about shrimp and crab?  If you just report they don’t like fish… the provider will eliminate ALL Fish!  Maybe include a couple of their favorite recipes to help staff to know their style of food.  How do they like their vegetables cooked?  Attached is a link to an industry standard form.  Feel free to print and fill it out!  Just remember to PERSONALIZE IT!  Details matter!  https://www.briggshealthcare.com/assets/itemdownloads/1184P.pdf

 

3.     Provide a list of activities or meaningful tasks. (Prior to Placement)

Answer these questions?… What activities, events, tasks, jobs or duties give your loved one value and enjoyment?  What gives them joy?  How do they prefer to occupy their time?  Visiting friends and going for coffee?  Reading and knitting?  Watching TV?  What kind of book, what shows, what do they like in their coffee?  Again… you are the expert and what you share will make all the difference in the world.  Did you know your family member could help do “job” at the facility?  If they volunteer and it gives them joy… the options are limited only by ones imagination and willingness to think outside the box!

Attached is an example to help get you juices flowing but remember to personalize it!  https://www.pdffiller.com/jsfiller-desk14/?requestHash=0ebb86b6baa19a546bbfc8c57b54f7480a961e14901458a5f6b4d52fc7442c79&projectId=1376637446&loader=tips&MEDIUM_PDFJS=true&PAGE_REARRANGE_V2_MVP=true&richTextFormatting=true&isPageRearrangeV2MVP=true&jsf-page-rearrange-v2=true&jsf-new-header=false&routeId=45f9462f8d01d952dbb1b2e6d10bd871&mode=force_choice#f2221efece9941e7bef9e5ef1be7a5ad

 

Investing the time upfront so that you can present these documents to the facility upon entering will honestly make the job of staff so much easier.  You will have provided them a path to get to know your loved one and to bond with them quickly and with confidence.  You will see a payoff for your efforts!

 

Grace and Peace

 

Bryan

Covid and LTC Tips

I like a good roller coaster as much as the next guy and most of us can remember that visceral sensation of thrill and fear combined as the clicking of the coaster on the track started our thrilling ride! In fact, researchers on the subject say that there is “clear evidence that people enjoy the sensations that accompany the fight or flight response within a non-threatening environment.” But the key words here are, however, the words “NON_THREATENING”.

When Covid began to spread from country to country, from one state to the next into our communities, homes and medical facilities, real fear began to rise. This deadly virus demanded response - and both fight and flight were brought to bear in both organized and governmental response and in our personal responses to what was clearly a growing crisis. What followed has been a roller coaster ride - but not one of the good ones!

Covid has made Long Term Care an ever changing and unpredictable roller coaster. Nursing homes are working to meet guidance that can change daily based upon which regulator decides to update guidelines and when. There have been times in the past year that the Centers for Medicaid and Medicare Services (CMS) and the Centers for Disease Control (CDC) have issued conflicting guidelines for care provision… and nursing facilities were left trying to figure out which to follow. Due to these ever changing and often conflicting guidelines for “infection control and care provision”, Skilled Nursing Facilities have been left in a difficult situation with patients and families - and in a place of tension between following all the regulations required by governing bodies while still deeply concerned for the patients and families who are struggling with how and when visits can occur, how the mental and emotional health of these fragile ones and their families is affected and how to best serve the WHOLE patient while making sure all the safety measures are served.

And it’s been a roller coaster for most - but with no end in sight to the ride… and it has been a roller coaster that no one got on voluntarily!

The instability remains, the waves of new variants remain, the mental and emotional roller coaster effect remains and we all want OFF the roller coaster but it does not look as if we will be allowed to get off the ride anytime soon. How I wish this was not the case but in working with the truth as it stands, here are a few thing a family member can know that may be helpful as we all sit tight on this ride:

  1. Understand that the SNF is doing it’s best to communicate with you but has many families that are in the same position as you… so MAKE A FRIEND or TWO within the staff! Most will be happy to help answer question or accommodate a special request as they are able!

  2. Call before you visit so that you know what is allowed at that time. This can help set expectations and create a smoother and more fulfilling visit for you and your loved one.

  3. Be positive! We all feed off each other’s energy! Kindness always goes a long way - especially in situations such as we are all facing. Your kindness can go a long way with staff and helps everyone to want to go the extra miles for you and your loved one!

  4. Ask the Administrator or Director of Nursing for their cellphone. Yes, Most of them will give it to you and would like very much to establish a relationship of mutual respect and care! (Remember, they certainly didn’t get into this field for the money and they truly care deeply about the work they do.) Send them a text with concerns that may arise and give them some time to check into it for you! They want you loved one to have all they need and they will do their best to address your questions and concerns!

It is difficult enough to walk the necessary but unfamiliar path of LTC but Covid has made it MUCH more difficult for the patients, the families and the caregivers within long term care…We know this!

We can be a light, a help or guide to assist you navigate this roller coaster ride and ensure quality care for your loved one. There are ways that we can help ensure that you are creating a thriving relationship with your loved one’s placement or if you have any concerns, please don’t hesitate to give us a call!

Caring together,

Bryan

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